Chris Sain Jr.

For nearly five years, Chris Sain Jr. founder of the “PUT A RING ON IT” initiative has been pouring into young men, specifically black men ages 35 and under that are either single and holding out on love or in a relationship but refuse to get married. Chris Sain Jr. considered by many to be a relationship expert, but he willingly admits, he is the least likeliest of all men to get married, is also a domestic violence and sexual assault activist among other things says, “If you are over 35, in a relationship for three or more years with a person and you are still not married, you know better!!! You are playing games. I don’t seek to consult guys like that because as a man, you know better.” The “PUT A RING ON IT” initiative was birthed because Chris decided to be to other young men what he wished someone were to him. "Married men I knew, never kept it real when asked about what married life is like." The number one answer every man gave was “It’s tough. Marriage ...

7. No personal space One of my close female friends recently broke up with her guy because he smothered her and refuse to give her space. Couldn’t go to the store, couldn’t go get her nails done, couldn’t do anything!!! Personal space is extremely vital for all of us. We can’t be our true selves with others unless we get to spend personal and alone time with ourselves and do our own activities away from our significant other. “Doin You” and hanging out with your friends or people you are close to is necessary. If you want to make your woman love and respect you more, give her the space she needs to grow on her own. It doesn’t make you a bad boyfriend or husband if you let your girl have her space and do her own thing! 8. Being “unattached” or “emotionally unavailable” Being unattached and emotionally unavailable is one of the worst things you can be to your significant other. She doesn’t want you to just hang out with her, go to fancy dinners with her, watch a mov...

Women tend to invest a lot in a relationship ; they put their hearts and soul into it. They trust blindly, care immensely and love recklessly. Most women don’t put themselves first when they are truly in love. My home girl fell in love with a guy who treated her wrong in so many ways. She trusted him and gave him everything she had. She refused to look past the false image of him she had created for herself. Her idea of a perfect relationship was petty and shallow. She didn’t realize the wrong she was doing to herself; until she was finally out of the relationship. Men, if and when chosen, wants to be selected by a strongindependent woman ; the kind of woman who knows her worth, that respects herself and knows how to make others respect her. The moment a woman learns to love and respect herself, she gains the ability to evaluate her relationship better and make better choices. She prepares herself to leave the man she loves, not because she is not loyal but because she now kno...